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Valerie Keller Gates

Valerie Keller Gates, LPC

Therapist in Oklahoma · 7+ years of experience

Calm, practical counseling for stress and change

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  • Client-centered approach
  • CBT tools
  • Trauma-informed care

About Valerie

Valerie Keller Gates is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Oklahoma who helps people facing stress and anxiety. She offers straightforward, respectful care and aims to meet each person where they are. Her style is honest and warm, with attention to practical steps people can use between sessions.

She trained with a focus in licensed professional counseling and brings seven years of clinical experience. That experience includes supporting people with depression, grief, trauma and abuse, bipolar concerns, ADHD, and relationship worries. She also addresses parenting challenges, blended family issues, communication problems, and difficulties around intimacy and trust.

Valerie blends client-centered work with cognitive behavioral techniques and incorporates other methods like EMDR, mindfulness, and narrative approaches when helpful. In sessions she listens first, then helps shape goals and tools that fit daily life. She emphasizes clear, honest conversation and builds plans that respond to what the person brings to the room.

Her approach is practical and adaptable. She helps people develop coping skills, rethink unhelpful patterns, and process painful experiences. Clients can expect a collaborative process that focuses on small, manageable changes and real-world strategies.

Valerie believes everyone deserves compassion, respect, and support as they move forward. She encourages people to recognize their progress while working toward clearer direction and improved day-to-day functioning.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemBipolar disorderADHD

Additional focus areas

Blended family issuesCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityJealousyLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma

Languages

English

How Valerie Uses Therapeutic Approaches Online

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and building a working relationship where the person feels heard and respected; it helps when someone needs space to talk through problems and identify their own solutions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and offers practical tools to change unhelpful patterns, which can be useful for anxiety and depression. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR, is a method used to help process traumatic memories and reduce their emotional intensity when trauma is a concern.

Choosing the best approach is part of the therapy process. The therapist will work together with the person to decide which methods fit their needs and goals. This collaborative process allows adjustments over time as progress and preferences become clearer.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into busy lives and maintain regular contact while working toward goals. Please confirm the current session options before booking so you know what formats are available. Many people find online sessions useful for shorter check-ins, consistent weekly work, or accessing care without travel time, and therapists will help shape session length and focus to match daily schedules and challenges.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Valerie help with?

She supports people experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting struggles, bipolar and ADHD challenges, and related concerns such as codependency, communication problems, and OCD symptoms.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

The style is client-centered and collaborative with practical skills from cognitive behavioral approaches. Sessions focus on listening first, then shaping goals and tools that fit everyday life.

What background and experience does she bring?

She has seven years of clinical experience and has worked with people facing mild to severe mental health challenges, grief, addictions with dual diagnosis, behavioral problems, and parenting concerns.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Oklahoma.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with this therapist?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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