- Stress and anxiety
- Relationship support
- Practical skills
About Ray
He uses clear, respectful conversation to find what matters most to each person. Sessions are adapted to the needs and goals a client brings. Ray emphasizes practical steps people can try between sessions to manage stress and improve day-to-day functioning.
His approach draws on attachment ideas to look at how early bonds shape current relationships. He also uses cognitive behavioral techniques to help people notice and change unhelpful thought patterns. Emotionally-focused methods and elements of the Gottman Method guide work on communication and connection in close relationships.
Ray has worked with individuals facing depression, low self-esteem, trauma and abuse, and a range of relationship challenges. He also supports people navigating blended family issues, caregiver stress, substance concerns, obsessive-compulsive patterns, and feelings of isolation. He accepts clients who live outside the United States.
Ray aims to tailor each plan to a person’s situation and pace. He recognizes it can be hard to reach out and works to make sessions practical, approachable, and focused on real-life changes.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Therapeutic approaches
Experience
16+ years
Credentials
Oklahoma, Kansas
Languages
English
How Ray's approaches fit into online therapy
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current feelings and connections and can help with anxiety tied to closeness or trust. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them with practical experiments to reduce stress and depressive patterns. Emotionally-Focused Therapy helps people name and shift strong emotions that get in the way of relationships and connection.Finding the right approach is a joint process. Ray will work with each person to decide which methods best match their goals, background, and what feels most comfortable. He adapts plans over time based on what is working and what needs to change.
The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. Many people find online sessions help fit therapy into busy schedules, reduce travel time, and make it easier to keep regular appointments. Others choose formats that let them check in quickly or avoid being on camera when bandwidth or energy is limited. Ray aims to make online work practical and focused on everyday changes rather than theoretical discussion.
Frequently asked questions
What issues does Ray focus on?
He focuses on stress and anxiety plus relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, self-esteem concerns, and depression. He also addresses blended family dynamics, caregiver stress, substance concerns, OCD patterns, and loneliness.
What is his general therapy style?
He uses respectful, straightforward conversation and tailors sessions to each person's needs. Sessions emphasize practical steps people can try between meetings.
How much experience does he have?
He has 16 years of professional experience working with individuals on stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, and related issues.
What credentials and location are listed?
He holds LCMFT and LMFT credentials and practices from Oklahoma. The listing shows KS LCMFT and OK LMFT as the credential details provided.
Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?
Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking to know which formats are offered.
How does cost and billing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Choose the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.