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Martha "Marti" Stany

Martha "Marti" Stany, LCSW, CSW

Therapist in Wisconsin · 10+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for stress and anxiety

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  • Collaborative care
  • Trauma informed
  • Values focused

About Martha

Martha "Marti" Stany is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on stress and anxiety along with trauma, sexuality, and relationship concerns. She brings ten years of experience to her work and centers sessions on respect and collaboration. Marti uses straightforward, practical conversations to help people find what works for them.

Her style is warm and nonjudgmental. She treats clients as the experts in their own lives and helps them name goals and steps forward. Marti blends methods from acceptance and commitment approaches, attachment-focused work, and cognitive-behavioral ideas to match each person's needs.

She has worked with many people from LGBTQIA+ communities and with those recovering from trauma and abuse. Marti also supports people dealing with intimacy challenges, relationship strain, grief, and caregiving stress. She pays attention to how past relationships shape present patterns and choices.

Sessions involve clear, practical tools alongside deeper conversations about values and connection. Clients can expect to practice skills between meetings and try small experiments in daily life. Marti helps translate insight into doable steps.

Her credentials include LCSW and CSW, and she provides services in Wisconsin. Conversations are in English, and she does not take international clients. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule based on availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodImago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

Texas, Illinois, Colorado, Wisconsin

Languages

English

How therapy approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and choosing actions that match personal values. It helps with anxiety, stress, and making changes that matter. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and helps people form clearer expectations and safer connections. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, behaviors, and feelings, and teaches practical skills to reduce anxiety and improve sleep and mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Together they pick methods to try and adjust them over time based on what helps most.

Please confirm which session formats are offered before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, shorten check-ins, or avoid travel time. It also lets people practice skills between meetings in real-life settings. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, attachment work, and CBT to online conversations so the focus stays on practical tools and steady progress.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

Marti helps with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy and relationship issues, and related concerns like grief, sleep and eating struggles.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her approach is compassionate and nonjudgmental. She uses collaborative, practical conversations and integrates multiple techniques to fit each person's needs.

How much experience does she have?

She has ten years of professional experience working with individuals on mental health, trauma, sexuality, and relationship concerns.

What credentials and location apply?

She holds LCSW and CSW credentials and practices in Wisconsin.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Specific session formats are not listed here; please confirm current options before booking so you know how sessions are held.

How does cost and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Click the Start Therapy button, fill out a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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