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Haley Harmer

Haley Harmer, LPC

Therapist in Oklahoma · 11+ years of experience

Warm LPC helping with stress and anxiety

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship support
  • Trauma informed

About Haley

Haley Harmer is a Licensed Professional Counselor with 11 years of experience helping people manage stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, trauma, and other life challenges. She presents as warm and inviting and aims to create a respectful, empathetic space where clients can talk through hard things and build practical coping skills. Haley emphasizes listening first and then working with each person to find what fits their life.

Haley has worked a great deal with children, youth, and families, though she also sees adults with a wide range of concerns. Her caseload has included trauma and abuse, depression, parenting struggles, communication problems, addiction, and issues around identity and intimacy. She describes her work as grounded in real daily struggles rather than abstract theory.

Her clinical approach draws on cognitive behavioral strategies, client-centered techniques, and trauma-informed perspectives. Haley tailors treatment plans to each person, combining skills training, exploration of values, and attention to attachment and relationship patterns when helpful. She focuses on clear, achievable steps clients can use between sessions.

In sessions she aims to offer empathy, compassion, and practical guidance. Haley encourages small experiments and steady progress rather than quick fixes. She works collaboratively, helping clients set goals and notice what changes when they try new behaviors.

Haley practices in Oklahoma and uses her LPC credential. Sessions are conducted in English. People who choose to work with her begin by completing a brief matching questionnaire and scheduling appointments based on availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma

Languages

English

How Haley's Approaches Translate to Online Work

Haley uses cognitive behavioral therapy and client-centered techniques in ways that fit online work. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors, which can be done through discussion, worksheets, and short experiments between sessions. Client-centered therapy centers on listening and building a trusting relationship so people feel heard and can explore what matters most to them.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. Haley will collaborate with each person to decide which methods to try based on their needs, goals, and preferences. She often blends approaches and adjusts plans as people notice what helps.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm current session options before booking. The practical benefits often include fitting appointments into a busy week, reducing travel time, and keeping therapy consistent during life transitions. Some people prefer shorter check-ins when schedules are tight or audio-only conversations when they do not want to be on camera. Discussing these practical needs during the intake questionnaire helps shape sessions that work with everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Haley commonly help people with?

She supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and family difficulties, grief, parenting challenges, addiction concerns, and related issues.

How would you describe Haley's therapy style?

Her style is warm, inviting, and understanding. She aims to listen closely and then work collaboratively to set clear, practical goals.

What is her professional background?

Haley has been working as a therapist for 11 years, with substantial experience supporting children, youth, families, and individual adults across many concerns.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She holds the LPC credential and practices in Oklahoma.

Which languages does she offer sessions in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions priced and billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to start therapy with Haley?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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