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Gretchen Shay

Gretchen Shay, LCSW, LICSW

Therapist in Alabama · 14+ years of experience

Warm, practical support for stress and anxiety

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  • Collaborative style
  • Goal oriented
  • Compassionate listener

About Gretchen

Gretchen Shay is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people manage stress and anxiety. She brings 14 years of experience to conversations about depression, addiction, relationships, grief, parenting strains, and other life changes. Her manner is warm and interactive, and she aims to treat people with respect and sensitivity.

Gretchen uses a mix of practical methods rather than a single one-size-fits-all plan. Sessions focus on clear goals and real steps clients can try between meetings. She tailors each plan to the person's needs and circumstances instead of relying on labels.

Her background includes work with people facing medical diagnoses and those supporting loved ones through illness and end of life. She has also supported people dealing with eating and body-image concerns, codependency, attachment and abandonment worries, and blended family issues. This range informs how she frames coping strategies and supports clients facing multiple challenges.

In session she listens closely and encourages straightforward talk about feelings, patterns, and practical changes. Gretchen draws on cognitive behavioral ideas to spot unhelpful thinking, narrative techniques to reframe stories people tell about themselves, and emotionally-focused approaches when relationships and attachment are central.

Gretchen holds LCSW and LICSW credentials and practices from Alabama. People who want to explore stress, anxiety, or related struggles can expect focused sessions aimed at usable tools and clearer next steps.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsEating disordersDepression

Also works with

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesSelf esteemCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityObsessions, compulsions, and OCDProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Motivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

Alabama, Illinois

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and online care

Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and understanding the person's perspective. It helps when someone needs a supportive space to talk through feelings and make decisions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing small behavior changes to reduce anxiety and improve mood. Emotionally-Focused Therapy helps people explore attachment and strong emotions, which can be useful when relationship patterns or closeness cause distress.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Gretchen will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences. That may mean trying one approach first and adjusting over time as progress and challenges become clearer.

Confirm available session formats before booking, as specific online options are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules, reduce travel time, and allow short check-ins when a full session is not needed. It also makes it simpler to keep momentum between appointments by using tools and homework the therapist and client agree on.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people dealing with stress and anxiety as well as depression, addictions, relationship and family issues, grief, parenting struggles, self-esteem, and related challenges.

What is her general therapy style?

Her style is warm and interactive, focusing on respectful, nonstigmatizing conversation and practical steps to try between sessions.

How much experience does she have?

She has 14 years of experience working as a social worker and therapist with a wide range of concerns and life situations.

What credentials and location apply?

She holds LCSW and LICSW credentials and practices from Alabama with licensure in Illinois and Alabama.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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